Updated Nov 2026. Prices checked November 2026 on each service's US App Store listing or website. We run Swinging Lifestyle, one of the options below, and we say where a rival is the better choice.
First, a note on Swing.com
Swing.com is not really an alternative to SLS. Its own homepage says that after nearly 25 years, Swinglifestyle.com is uniting under Swing.com, and the app links on Swing.com point to the same SLS Official and Social Lifestyle apps. If you are happy with the SLS community but want its newer look, Swing.com is where it now lives, with its Hot Dates, forums, groups, podcasts and an events calendar that includes lifestyle cruises. If you want something genuinely different, read on.
SLS alternatives at a glance
| SDC | Kasidie | Feeld | Swinging Lifestyle | |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| 1-month price (US) | $26.99 couples and women, $32.99 men | Not published | $29.99 Majestic | $42.81 VIP |
| Longest plan | 1 year $134.99 couples and women | Not published | 1 year $149.99 | 12 months $260.19 VIP |
| App | iPhone and Android | No app listing found | iPhone and Android | Mobile-friendly website |
| Couples profiles | Yes | Couple registration | Linked partner profiles | One shared couple profile |
| Events and travel | Parties, clubs, travel, BNBs | Parties, hotel takeovers, travel plans | Community events | Not offered |
| Verification | Not described on its public pages | Certified Members programme | Biometric identity verification | Video call before meeting advised |
| Best for | Party and travel couples | Couples who want certification | Younger, curious couples | Local, one-to-one introductions |
Prices checked November 2026. SDC and Feeld prices are from their US App Store listings. Kasidie does not publish its Elite price publicly. For reference, the US App Store lists SLS Official at $19.99 or $24.99 for one month. For a closer look at the two biggest names, read SLS vs SDC.
Why couples look beyond SLS
There are a few common reasons to look elsewhere. Some find the layout traditional and busy. Some live where SLS is quiet and another community is livelier. Some want a different balance between events and dating. None of this means SLS is a bad choice. Its terms describe a government ID review to confirm age and identity, it has apps on both iPhone and Android, and its travel calendar is one of the fullest around. It simply may not be the right fit for every couple, in every town.
The alternatives one by one
SDC
The closest like-for-like swap. SDC has run since 1999 and combines dating with party and club listings, reviews, lifestyle travel, BNB rentals and a media library. It has apps on iPhone and Android. In the US app, couples and women pay $26.99 for one month and $134.99 for a year. Choose it if events and travel are why you liked SLS in the first place. Compare it with Kasidie in SDC vs Kasidie.
Kasidie
Kasidie is the pick for couples who want a stronger sense of who is real. Its Certified Members programme lets couples be certified by sign photo, by a certified member or club owner who has met them, or by staff at a Kasidie event. It lists parties from house parties to hotel takeovers and lets members share travel plans. It runs in a browser, with no app listing we could find. See Swinging Lifestyle vs Kasidie.
Feeld
Feeld feels nothing like SLS, which is exactly why some couples move to it. It is a modern app for open-minded people of all kinds. Partners keep their own profiles and link them through Constellations, with up to five partners in a group. Feeld describes biometric identity verification and screenshot protection. Majestic costs $29.99 for 30 days or $149.99 for a year in the US app. Choose it if you want a younger, broader crowd. Read Swinging Lifestyle vs Feeld.
Swinging Lifestyle
Our own site is the quietest option on this list, by design. There are no events, cruises or forums to scroll past. Couples build one shared profile, search near their town, and talk in private messages. It is a mobile-friendly website rather than an app, so nothing sits on your home screen. VIP is $42.81 for one month and $260.19 for twelve months, and VIP Plus is $51.39 and $338.41; the twelve-month plans do not renew. Every length is on our features page.
Which should you choose
You loved the SLS events calendar. Go to SDC, or stay with SLS on Swing.com.
You want to know people are who they say they are. Kasidie certification is the most hands-on process we found. Add a video call with both partners present, wherever you meet people.
You want an app that feels current. Feeld, especially if you are under forty or exploring more than swinging.
You want quiet, local introductions. Swinging Lifestyle. Many couples keep an events brand for nights out and use us to meet one couple at a time.
How to switch without losing contacts
Before you cancel anything, swap a safe contact method with the couples you already know, such as a username on your new site. Download any messages you want to keep, if your current site allows it. Remove face photos from the old profile first, then cancel auto-renewal from your account settings and keep the confirmation. On the new site, write a fresh profile rather than pasting your old one; it reads better and is harder to link to you.
Where Swinging Lifestyle fits
We are a dating site for swinger couples and the singles who want to meet them, with 9.7 million members. We do not try to replace an events calendar. If parties and cruises are central to how you enjoy the lifestyle, SDC or Swing.com will serve you better. If you mainly want to meet compatible couples near you, create your profile and browse who is local.
Frequently asked questions
What is the best alternative to SwingLifestyle?
SDC is the closest match for couples who want events and travel. Kasidie suits couples who value certification, Feeld suits couples who want a modern app, and Swinging Lifestyle suits couples who want calm local introductions.
Is Swing.com the same as SLS?
Yes, in effect. Swing.com says Swinglifestyle.com is uniting under Swing.com, and its app links point to the same SLS Official and Social Lifestyle apps.
Is SDC cheaper than SLS?
On the US App Store in November 2026, SDC cost $26.99 for one month for couples and women, while SLS Official listed $19.99 and $24.99 for one month. Prices vary by country and at checkout, so compare on the day you pay.
Which SLS alternative has the best verification?
Kasidie has the most detailed process we found, through its Certified Members programme. Feeld describes biometric identity verification. On any site, a video call with both partners present before meeting is the best check.
Does Swinging Lifestyle have events like SLS?
No. Swinging Lifestyle focuses on couple profiles, local search and private messaging. If events and travel matter most, SDC or Swing.com may suit you better.