Updated Nov 2026. Prices checked November 2026 on each app's US App Store listing. This guide is written by Swinging Lifestyle, so we compare ourselves too and say plainly where another app is the better fit.
Swinger apps at a glance
| SDC | Feeld | 3Fun | SLS | Kasidie | Swinging Lifestyle | |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| iPhone app | Yes | Yes | Yes | Yes (SLS Official) | No app listing found | No, mobile-friendly website |
| Android app | Yes | Yes | Yes | Yes (Social Lifestyle) | No app listing found | No, mobile-friendly website |
| 1-month price (US) | $26.99 couples and women, $32.99 men | $29.99 Majestic | $29.99 VIP | $19.99 or $24.99 | Not published | $42.81 VIP |
| Couple profiles | Yes | Linked partner profiles | One shared couple account | Yes | Couple registration | One shared couple profile |
| Events and travel | Party listings, travel, BNBs | Community events | Not a focus | Cruises and resort events | House parties to hotel takeovers | Not offered |
| Privacy tools | Discretion and privacy stated on site | Screenshot protection, private photos | Hide distance, private photos | ID review in its terms | Certification, discretion stated | Private messaging, faceless photos welcome |
Prices checked November 2026. In-app prices come from each US App Store listing and can differ by country, by sign-up route and at checkout. Kasidie does not show its Elite price on its public pages, so we have left it out rather than guess.
Why couples want an app at all
An app is convenient. Notifications arrive when a couple replies, photos are easy to upload from your camera roll, and you can keep a conversation going during the day. The trade-off is discretion. An app icon on a shared phone or a family tablet can raise questions, and a notification banner can show a name you would rather keep private. Many experienced couples keep notifications off and lock lifestyle apps behind a passcode for exactly that reason.
A browser-based site avoids the icon problem entirely. You open a private window, log in, and close it when you are done. Neither approach is wrong. Decide together which matters more to you: instant alerts, or nothing on your home screen.
The apps one by one
SDC
SDC has run since 1999 under the line "Seek, Discover, Connect". Its iPhone and Android apps sit alongside a large website with party listings, club reviews, lifestyle travel, BNB rentals, groups and a media library. The App Store listing mentions a travel calendar, local social events, forums and video messaging. Couples and women pay $26.99 for one month in the app and $134.99 for a year; single men pay $32.99 and $164.99. Best for couples who love parties and travel. Read Swinging Lifestyle vs SDC and SDC vs Kasidie.
Feeld
Feeld is a broad app for open-minded people of every orientation, not a swinger site as such. Its Constellations feature lets you link your profile with up to five partners, while each person keeps their own profile and their own chats. Feeld describes biometric identity verification and screenshot protection, and Majestic members can keep private photos for their connections. Majestic Membership costs $29.99 for 30 days, $49.99 for 90 days and $149.99 for a year in the US app, and each linked partner who wants Majestic features needs their own. Best for younger, curious couples. See Swinging Lifestyle vs Feeld and Feeld vs swinger sites.
3Fun
3Fun is an app for couples and singles exploring threesomes and ENM. A couple shares one account and both partners can chat from it. The App Store listing describes verified photos, private photos for matches and options to hide your distance or your profile. VIP costs $29.99 for one month and $39.99 for three months in the US app. Best for couples looking for a third. Read Swinging Lifestyle vs 3Fun.
SLS (SwingLifestyle)
SLS offers the SLS Official app on iPhone and the Social Lifestyle app on Android, both linked from swinglifestyle.com. The SLS terms describe a review of government-issued ID to confirm age and identity, and the SLS Official app does not allow nude content. The US App Store lists two one-month prices, $19.99 and $24.99, without saying who pays which, so check at checkout. Best for couples who enjoy forums, groups and lifestyle travel. Compare options in SLS alternatives.
Kasidie
We found no Kasidie app in the US App Store or Google Play, and its site carries no app store links. Kasidie works in a phone browser, and it is best known for its Certified Members programme: you can be certified by sending a photo holding a sign with your username, by a certified member or club owner who has met you, or by Kasidie staff at one of its events. Its event listings run from house parties to hotel takeovers. Best for couples who value certification. See Swinging Lifestyle vs Kasidie.
Swinging Lifestyle
We do not have an app in the App Store or Google Play. Swinging Lifestyle is a mobile-friendly website that works in any modern browser on a phone, tablet or computer, so there is nothing to install and no icon on a shared phone. Couples build one shared profile, singles have their own, and you can search near your town or set a wider radius. VIP is $42.81 for one month and VIP Plus is $51.39; every length is listed on our features page.
Which should you choose
You want parties and travel. SDC has the biggest events and travel layer, with SLS close behind for cruises and resort takeovers.
You want a third, or you are new to ENM. 3Fun and Feeld are built for exploring, and both feel more like modern dating apps than lifestyle clubs.
You want trust signals. Kasidie certification and the SLS ID review are the most detailed processes we found. Whatever you use, a short video call with both partners present is still the best check.
You want discretion on a shared phone. A browser-based site such as Kasidie or Swinging Lifestyle leaves no app icon behind. Use a private window and do not save your password.
You want calm local introductions. Swinging Lifestyle keeps things simple: a couple profile, a local search and private conversations, without an events calendar to scroll past. Our guide on how to choose a swinger site or app has a checklist to work through together.
Privacy checklist for any swinger app
- Turn off notification previews, or switch notifications off for lifestyle apps altogether.
- Use photos without faces until you trust someone, and check the background of every picture for house numbers, car plates and work badges.
- Never move to a personal number or social media profile in the first few messages.
- Lock the app, or use a private browser window and do not save your password.
- Read our privacy tips for swingers online before you upload anything.
Where Swinging Lifestyle fits
We are a dating site for swinging couples and the singles who want to meet them, with 9.7 million members. There is no app to download, and that is deliberate for couples who share devices. If an app with push notifications matters most to you, SDC, Feeld or 3Fun may suit you better; plenty of couples use one of those for events and a site like ours for local, one-to-one introductions. If you would like to look around first, create your profile and browse couples near you.
Frequently asked questions
What is the best swinger app for couples?
There is no single winner. SDC suits couples who want parties and travel, 3Fun and Feeld suit couples exploring a third or ENM, and Kasidie suits couples who value certification. Swinging Lifestyle suits couples who want calm local introductions on a mobile-friendly website.
Does Swinging Lifestyle have an app?
No. Swinging Lifestyle is a mobile-friendly website that works in any modern browser on your phone, tablet or computer, so there is nothing to install and no app icon on a shared device.
Which swinger apps work on both iPhone and Android?
SDC, Feeld and 3Fun have apps on both. SLS has the SLS Official app on iPhone and the Social Lifestyle app on Android. We found no Kasidie app in either store.
How much do swinger apps cost per month?
In the US App Store in November 2026, one month cost $26.99 for SDC couples and women, $29.99 for Feeld Majestic, $29.99 for 3Fun VIP and $19.99 or $24.99 for SLS. Swinging Lifestyle VIP is $42.81 a month. Prices can differ by country and at checkout.
Can both partners use one couple profile?
On 3Fun a couple shares one account, and on Swinging Lifestyle a couple builds one shared profile. Feeld works differently: each partner keeps their own profile and links it to the other.
Are swinger apps discreet?
They can be, if you set them up carefully. Switch off notification previews, lock the app, use photos without faces at first and keep early conversations inside the app. A browser-based site leaves no icon on your phone.